Once upon a time I read some of the blog I kept while waiting for Abeni to come home from Korea. I thought to myself this is fantastic! (Humble right ;)) but honestly I decided I liked having a record of what my family was doing soooo I am going to become a better blogger. (I hope)
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Wednesday, November 14, 2012
Recovery
Abeni's recovery has been very smooth. She stayed in the PICU for five days. The hardest thing during that time is that she was basically stuck in her bed. She wanted so desperately for me to pick her up and hold her so we did the next best thing and I laid in bed with her.
She spent her time sleeping and resting and finally as she started to heal playing a little.
The chest tube (a drainage tube) finally came out on Sunday afternoon and we were able to rock!
Her incision is actually very small and looks like it will heal nicely.
On Monday we graduated to the complex airway unit. Cincinnati Children's has a whole unit dedicated to kids with complex airways. It was so nice to have respiratory therapists and nurses who take care of kids like Beni all the time.
Daddy had to fly home Monday afternoon. But he couldn't leave until he got some last minute cuddles from his brave daughter.
We got to hang out in the Complex Airway Unit for just two days because on Tuesday morning after her bronchoscopy, Dr. Rutter gave us the ok to come "home" to the Ronald McDonald House!
Beni was very happy to leave the hospital!
We had to go back to the hospital today for another visit because she was having a reaction to the dressing around her chest tube incision. We also celebrated the Ronald McDonald House's 30th birthday!
The plan for now is to give her time to heal and check again on Tuesday (another bronchoscopy) to see if her airway continues to look as good as it is right now. If it does we get to go home home! I can't believe it! We thought we would be here for at least a month! Abeni is kicking this recovery's butt.
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She spent her time sleeping and resting and finally as she started to heal playing a little.
The chest tube (a drainage tube) finally came out on Sunday afternoon and we were able to rock!
Her incision is actually very small and looks like it will heal nicely.
On Monday we graduated to the complex airway unit. Cincinnati Children's has a whole unit dedicated to kids with complex airways. It was so nice to have respiratory therapists and nurses who take care of kids like Beni all the time.
Daddy had to fly home Monday afternoon. But he couldn't leave until he got some last minute cuddles from his brave daughter.
We got to hang out in the Complex Airway Unit for just two days because on Tuesday morning after her bronchoscopy, Dr. Rutter gave us the ok to come "home" to the Ronald McDonald House!
Beni was very happy to leave the hospital!
We had to go back to the hospital today for another visit because she was having a reaction to the dressing around her chest tube incision. We also celebrated the Ronald McDonald House's 30th birthday!
The plan for now is to give her time to heal and check again on Tuesday (another bronchoscopy) to see if her airway continues to look as good as it is right now. If it does we get to go home home! I can't believe it! We thought we would be here for at least a month! Abeni is kicking this recovery's butt.
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Saturday, November 10, 2012
The BIG day
The day of Abeni's big surgery we woke up dark and early ;-) and nervously prepared to leave. We arrived at the surgery department and they took us right back. Dr Rutter was tied up somewhere so we got started a few minutes late. That gave us about 30 extra minutes to play with our sweet girl :) Warning extreme cuteness to follow!
I seriously die from the sweetness of this picture.
The "big OR's" don't have an induction room where I can stay with her till she falls asleep; so I had to hand her off to the nurse. I kissed her over and over and hugged her tight and Michael did the same. Then we passed her off and told her it was going to be ok. It was so hard to hear her crying for me as I walked away. We checked in with the reception in the waiting area and told them we were going to grab a bite. When we got back and checked back in she told us that since Abeni was the longest case of the day we could have our own private waiting area. Seriously so so nice and so sweet. We had a quiet private place to wait the big day out. It had "sleeping chairs," blankets, a TV, and extra large coffee cups for the coffee... In our case it was hot chocolate ;)
The surgery went fast. They started with some bronchoscopes and preparations. We got a call about an hour in telling is that they were ready to open her and get to work. Not gonna lie I cried a bit. Then about an hour and 15 later the ENT NP came in and told us that she was already getting off bypass! She figured they would be putting her on bypass but taking her off!!! The repair was done! It had gone well. They still had lots to do but it was going so well. They did all their post repair checking and things looked good. An hour and thirty minutes later the NP came in again and told us they were closing her chest and the Dr's would be right in to talk to us. After some happy nervous smiles and deep breaths the 3 surgeons walked in. They were quite pleased with themselves! And why shouldn't they be they had just given my baby the gift of being able to breath easily for the first time in her life. They had been able to make her airway 5x's the size it had been. She did require one unit if blood and had been having blood pressure issues in the OR, but now she was doing GREAT. She was doing so well in fact that they planned to take her breathing tube out later that day. They told us it would be a while before they moved her to the PICU, but that we should go wait there. An hour and 10 minutes later we were kissing our strong little angel girl.
She did so well over the next few hours and then came the big moment of getting that tube out. We were so lucky to have Michael's friend Eddy drive two hours to come and see us! After the tube was out I noticed some strange swelling on her chest. I asked the Dr's what it was and then the room got a little busy. There was lots of conversation and people moving around. It felt like air under her skin. While not common it isn't an unseen complication. A chest X-ray was ordered and the air isn't in any dangerous places (very little around the hear) it should just dissipate on it's own.
We feel so incredibly blessed. This has gone so much better then we dared to hope. Thank you to those of you who are praying with us. We are so thankful to God for the gift we have been given in our sweet daughter.
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Location:Burnet Ave,Cincinnati,United States
Wednesday, November 7, 2012
Pre-op visits
Today we had lots of pre-op strings to toe up. We started with an appointment with Dr. Manning the heart surgeon who will be working with Dr. Rutter tomorrow.
He was full of good news including that we won't have to have Abeni's heart stopped for the procedure! She will have to be on the heart lung bypass machine but her heart will continue to beat, just her breathing will be stopped. The risk of complications for this type of bypass are much lower! He also explained his role in the procedure and went over Abeni's imaging from yesterday with us.
After our clinic visit we went downstairs where we grabbed a quick bite to eat. Abeni was being ohhh so sweet and kissing mommy and cuddling daddy while we ate.
Then we went and had her blood drawn for her pre-op blood work and for her typing in case she needs a transfusion. Dr. Manning is well respected for his work in keeping transfusion needs low in his patients so we are hopeful that she will need little if any blood. Abeni was upset when we got to the lab she knew what was coming but she was so brave. Then we had a visit to radiology for a chest X-ray just to be sure that baby girl hasn't developed any pneumonia. (All was clear).
After all of that we headed to the surgical department to have a physical, an EKG, and a meeting with anesthesiology. The cardiology department gave her a heart pillow and pen so that all of her providers can sign a pillow for her. Abeni was getting pretty tired by this point but still was ever so sweet and playing with all the providers that were looking her over. While we were waiting in surgery we got a call from the Ronald McDonald house. WE HAVE A ROOM! What a huge blessing this is. We will be right across the street from the hospital and we can stay here until the Dr's clear us to take angel girl HOME!
We headed back to the hotel packed up and came on down the Ronald McDonald house. We got settled let baby girl play and had dinner. (Which is brought in by volunteers, how amazing is that?!) then we bathed and dressed baby girl for her surgery. We laid her between us and kissed her and whispered how much we love her while she fell asleep.
Tomorrow we need to be at the hospital at 6:30 surgery time is 7:30. The procedure should take between 5-6 hours. We are hoping and praying for the surgeons to be guided in their decision making, and for Abeni to have the best outcome possible.
I'll update when I can.
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He was full of good news including that we won't have to have Abeni's heart stopped for the procedure! She will have to be on the heart lung bypass machine but her heart will continue to beat, just her breathing will be stopped. The risk of complications for this type of bypass are much lower! He also explained his role in the procedure and went over Abeni's imaging from yesterday with us.
After our clinic visit we went downstairs where we grabbed a quick bite to eat. Abeni was being ohhh so sweet and kissing mommy and cuddling daddy while we ate.
Then we went and had her blood drawn for her pre-op blood work and for her typing in case she needs a transfusion. Dr. Manning is well respected for his work in keeping transfusion needs low in his patients so we are hopeful that she will need little if any blood. Abeni was upset when we got to the lab she knew what was coming but she was so brave. Then we had a visit to radiology for a chest X-ray just to be sure that baby girl hasn't developed any pneumonia. (All was clear).
After all of that we headed to the surgical department to have a physical, an EKG, and a meeting with anesthesiology. The cardiology department gave her a heart pillow and pen so that all of her providers can sign a pillow for her. Abeni was getting pretty tired by this point but still was ever so sweet and playing with all the providers that were looking her over. While we were waiting in surgery we got a call from the Ronald McDonald house. WE HAVE A ROOM! What a huge blessing this is. We will be right across the street from the hospital and we can stay here until the Dr's clear us to take angel girl HOME!
We headed back to the hotel packed up and came on down the Ronald McDonald house. We got settled let baby girl play and had dinner. (Which is brought in by volunteers, how amazing is that?!) then we bathed and dressed baby girl for her surgery. We laid her between us and kissed her and whispered how much we love her while she fell asleep.
Tomorrow we need to be at the hospital at 6:30 surgery time is 7:30. The procedure should take between 5-6 hours. We are hoping and praying for the surgeons to be guided in their decision making, and for Abeni to have the best outcome possible.
I'll update when I can.
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Tuesday, November 6, 2012
Imaging day
My super hubby joined us in Ohio yesterday. Abeni and I woke up and started getting ready to pick him up. I tried a new hairstyle on Abeni's hair. It looks super cute :)
When we were ready we decided to find a park where Lil Bit could find a "whee." On the way there I got distracted by a very old observatory it was so cool! Then I loaded Beni back up in the car and when we got to the park...
So I played on the iPad and waited for her to wake up. When she woke up we went and played on the swings!!!
We met a mom and her daughter at the park and she asked to pray for Abeni. Ummm yes please :) Then we got in the car and went and got her dad. Sweet girl was so excited she was calling for him out her window! We had a lovely night of cuddles :)
In the morning we kept her from eating and drinking while waiting for scheduling to (finally) call and let us know when her high resolution CT and ECHO were scheduled. We called them at 8 and they said they would call back when they did we zipped on over to the hospital and she was put to sleep for her scans.
When we were all done we headed back to the room for some cuddles and quit time.
Tomorrow we have another big day at the hospital. I keep kissing her and holding her and thinking; God made you this way for a reason baby girl. And then praying please God show me the reason.
Please pray for Abeni, pray she is strong and healthy and that her strength and determination will help her heal.
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When we were ready we decided to find a park where Lil Bit could find a "whee." On the way there I got distracted by a very old observatory it was so cool! Then I loaded Beni back up in the car and when we got to the park...
So I played on the iPad and waited for her to wake up. When she woke up we went and played on the swings!!!
We met a mom and her daughter at the park and she asked to pray for Abeni. Ummm yes please :) Then we got in the car and went and got her dad. Sweet girl was so excited she was calling for him out her window! We had a lovely night of cuddles :)
In the morning we kept her from eating and drinking while waiting for scheduling to (finally) call and let us know when her high resolution CT and ECHO were scheduled. We called them at 8 and they said they would call back when they did we zipped on over to the hospital and she was put to sleep for her scans.
When we were all done we headed back to the room for some cuddles and quit time.
Tomorrow we have another big day at the hospital. I keep kissing her and holding her and thinking; God made you this way for a reason baby girl. And then praying please God show me the reason.
Please pray for Abeni, pray she is strong and healthy and that her strength and determination will help her heal.
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Friday, November 2, 2012
Day One broncoscopy
Abeni slept in this morning and right through her "must stop eating time." Then we did her breathing treatments which take close to an hour. After her saline treatment she often is too tuckered out from couching and getting her mucus out that she just wants to be cuddled and rest. By the time all that was over she had missed her "last clear liquid time" as well.
So what are girls with a few hours to kill who are unhappy because they area hungry to do??? TARGET of course :) We headed out to target and then baby girl napped in the car while I drove to the hospital.
We arrived a few minutes early and went to the chapel for some prayer and quiet reflection time. Then we went upstairs and found our way to same day surgery. The whole staff was very sweet with our tired and hungry angel baby. She was completely asleep when Dr. Rutter came into meet her. He told me a little about his history and success treating similar anatomy. He did tell me that most kids with similar issues to Abeni have this reconstruction as infants because they can't wait. Abeni is the oldest child who he has seen un-repaired. He has seen 4 kids with something similar to Abeni. He did say generally this is just a random anomaly and everything else is healthy. He also told me that it is always on the right side. He seems like a really good Dr. he was confident but cautious and had been talking to our local Dr. since Abeni was first diagnosed. Abeni was still asleep when the anesthesiologist gave her the anesthetic gas. I laid her down on the bed and kissed her. I wasn't in the waiting room long before Dr. Rutter called me back to chat about his findings. There really weren't any surprises. The narrowed Area is worse now then it was even in August. That explains why her breathing is becoming more and more "noisy." It was so nice to hear Dr. Rutter say that she sounds like other kids with airway issues :) There is a possibility that Abeni has a bronchial ring instead of a stenosis. The treatment is still surgery it's just a slightly different technique; we will know on Thursday when they "get her opened up." (I always get a little nauseous when I hear them say things like that.) He recommended a few more tests and procedures before we get to Thursday. About 5 minutes later I asked the receptionist if I could head back and hold my baby they said she was ready and when I got there she was sitting in a nurses arms calling for me. As soon as I picked her up she fell right back asleep. I woke her long enough to drink some juice. She downed the whole juice box in about 30 seconds. It wasn't long till we were out of there!
Abeni of course wanted "bap" for dinner so I found the nearest restaurant that served rice. She needed to hold my hand while we drove because she was so hungry, too sweet! We are really enjoying our one on one time and miss Beni loves being the center of attention. We just need to get though this weekend healthy and strong.
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So what are girls with a few hours to kill who are unhappy because they area hungry to do??? TARGET of course :) We headed out to target and then baby girl napped in the car while I drove to the hospital.
We arrived a few minutes early and went to the chapel for some prayer and quiet reflection time. Then we went upstairs and found our way to same day surgery. The whole staff was very sweet with our tired and hungry angel baby. She was completely asleep when Dr. Rutter came into meet her. He told me a little about his history and success treating similar anatomy. He did tell me that most kids with similar issues to Abeni have this reconstruction as infants because they can't wait. Abeni is the oldest child who he has seen un-repaired. He has seen 4 kids with something similar to Abeni. He did say generally this is just a random anomaly and everything else is healthy. He also told me that it is always on the right side. He seems like a really good Dr. he was confident but cautious and had been talking to our local Dr. since Abeni was first diagnosed. Abeni was still asleep when the anesthesiologist gave her the anesthetic gas. I laid her down on the bed and kissed her. I wasn't in the waiting room long before Dr. Rutter called me back to chat about his findings. There really weren't any surprises. The narrowed Area is worse now then it was even in August. That explains why her breathing is becoming more and more "noisy." It was so nice to hear Dr. Rutter say that she sounds like other kids with airway issues :) There is a possibility that Abeni has a bronchial ring instead of a stenosis. The treatment is still surgery it's just a slightly different technique; we will know on Thursday when they "get her opened up." (I always get a little nauseous when I hear them say things like that.) He recommended a few more tests and procedures before we get to Thursday. About 5 minutes later I asked the receptionist if I could head back and hold my baby they said she was ready and when I got there she was sitting in a nurses arms calling for me. As soon as I picked her up she fell right back asleep. I woke her long enough to drink some juice. She downed the whole juice box in about 30 seconds. It wasn't long till we were out of there!
Abeni of course wanted "bap" for dinner so I found the nearest restaurant that served rice. She needed to hold my hand while we drove because she was so hungry, too sweet! We are really enjoying our one on one time and miss Beni loves being the center of attention. We just need to get though this weekend healthy and strong.
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Travel day
After a furious busy day of packing and smoothing out travel plans we spent Halloween morning finishing up the last minute things we needed to do before we left. Then I got my little people all dressed up in their costumes. I think they looked seriously cute!
Then Michael dropped us off at the airport. Abeni loved being in her costume and having everyone tell her how cute she is :)
Mommy was feeling pretty sad that Abeni was missing out on the fun of trick or treating so we got Krispy Kreme donuts for dinner. Abeni thought it was fantastic!!
We got on our flight which Abeni did NOT think was fantastic!
She scammed during take off and landing and I can not deny that she had an accident during landing... all over mummy's lap. Needless to say we were both pretty tuckered out on the way to the rental car.
We arrived at the hotel about midnight and went and grabbed some White Castle burgers before chilling in our room and falling asleep.
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Then Michael dropped us off at the airport. Abeni loved being in her costume and having everyone tell her how cute she is :)
Mommy was feeling pretty sad that Abeni was missing out on the fun of trick or treating so we got Krispy Kreme donuts for dinner. Abeni thought it was fantastic!!
We got on our flight which Abeni did NOT think was fantastic!
She scammed during take off and landing and I can not deny that she had an accident during landing... all over mummy's lap. Needless to say we were both pretty tuckered out on the way to the rental car.
We arrived at the hotel about midnight and went and grabbed some White Castle burgers before chilling in our room and falling asleep.
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